Do you disguise yourself as low maintenance, believing that the fewer needs you have the more attractive you are? Have you convinced yourself that having needs is weak or shameful?
Well, my friend, you’re not alone. Millions of us have learned to camouflage or ignore our needs to the point of PN: pathological needless-ness! We can’t stop minimizing what we need and are uncomfortable with or do harm to ourselves (or another) to avoid asking for help.
The problem is, we are designed to need each other.
